Lifestyle: My Nigerian Eyes on France — Falling in Love, Living Bold, and Lessons for Africans Abroad
For many Nigerians and West Africans, the allure of France goes beyond the Eiffel Tower or the charming cafés. My own journey with France began long before I ever saw its streets—through the story of Joan of Arc in a faded children’s book. At just six, I was fascinated by her courage and later awed to learn she was a real heroine from French history. From that moment, France wasn’t simply a European country to me; it was the spark that ignited my curiosity about the wider world.
Growing up, my connection to France deepened in unexpected ways. As a teenager, I stumbled upon movies about the French Revolution and Marie Antoinette (although truth be told, that film put me to sleep!). But I was captivated by how “The Da Vinci Code” described the Louvre, turning it into more than just a museum, but a world of living art. Then, in adulthood, my interest took a serious turn—I began paying attention to French politics, especially during the heated debates of 2020. Through all these moments, one thing stood out: the unwavering revolutionary spirit of the French people.
The Revolutionary Heart of French Society
What fascinates me most is how the French are never afraid to demand their rights. In an age where many nations—Nigeria included—are grappling with youth apathy and political frustration, France’s culture of protest remains a beacon. They’re quick to hit the streets, unafraid to voice dissatisfaction. According to France24, 2023 alone saw over a million protesters rally against pension reforms—a testament to the power of collective action (“France hit by nationwide strike and mass protests”, France24, 2023).
This political consciousness sets a unique tone for everyday life. It’s as if protesting or challenging the status quo is woven into their national fabric—something many Nigerian youths, facing structural and societal barriers, often long for.
Race, Fashion, and Everyday Life: France Through African Eyes
As a Nigerian, the question of race often arises when we discuss Europe. My personal experience in France was surprisingly positive. While I did face the occasional discomfort—mainly from the elderly who would cross the road to avoid me—such incidents were rare. In eight months, I could count them on one hand. However, I acknowledge that not every Black person shares my story; social realities differ, which is why Nigeria’s Diaspora Commission encourages all Africans abroad to remain vigilant and connected (NDI official statement, 2022).
What stood out more than race was the importance placed on fashion and personal presentation. In Paris, first impressions are everything—sometimes, the French might judge your style long before your skin. Here, a torn shirt is as disturbing as missed “bonjour” in the morning. Their love for fashion is as central as their passion for fresh baguette or creamy cheese—staples that seem to punctuate every aspect of French life.
Navigating Contradictions: France’s Beauty and Its Complex Past
Falling in love with France doesn’t mean ignoring complexities. The same revolutionary zeal that drives change at home has a contradictory edge abroad, especially in Francophone Africa. Nigerian and Ghanaian communities in Paris still debate the impact of neocolonial ties, even amid beautiful boulevards pulsing with Afrobeats, Congolese rumba, and Algerian Rai. These cultural blends reflect a new chapter—where Africa’s diaspora doesn’t merely survive but writes itself boldly into the French narrative.
The Power and Politics of Language
Language is more than grammar; it is identity, power, and access. Mastering French opened unexpected doors, but I remained aware that accent, origin, and even how one says “bonjour” can determine which opportunities materialise. It’s a lesson many in the African diaspora share—even after acing English proficiency exams like the IELTS, learning French became a bridge to new communities. Apps like Duolingo, used by over 50 million learners worldwide (TechCrunch, 2023), made my transition surprisingly smooth and gave me a new appreciation for both the music and rhythm of everyday speech.
It was almost as if I had a latent French spirit, recalling how easily I picked up the accent. Attempts at learning Italian, German, or Spanish never felt the same. There is something unique about French—it’s both an intellectual challenge and a dance.
Living, Learning, and Working in Paris
Landing at Orly Airport on the brisk morning of September 24, 2024, I was struck almost immediately—not by the grandeur, but by the cold! I understood at once why Parisians walk briskly, their heads slightly down, coats tightly fastened. Within days, I found myself mimicking that haste, swapping my usual Lagos stroll for the determined Parisian stride.
Another shock? Smoking. In Paris, cigarettes are as common as a suya seller in Ikeja traffic. For nonsmokers and those concerned about passive smoking hazards—which, according to the WHO, can be even more dangerous than direct smoking—this cultural norm may take getting used to.
Keys to Thriving in Paris: Practical Tips for Nigerians and West Africans
- Master the basics: Even a little French goes a long way. Essential phrases—like s’il vous plaît (please), merci (thank you), bonjour (hello), où est la gare? (where is the station?)—could help you make friends, avoid rudeness, and find your way.
- Politeness matters: Always greet people, especially in shops and markets. “Please” and “thank you” are non-negotiable.
- Understanding social cues: Most French people won’t switch to English, even if they know it. Instead, ask if you can speak English: “Je peux parler en anglais, s’il vous plaît?” is a softer approach.
- Pronunciation challenges: Both Nigerian (especially Yoruba) and French cultures have tricky pronunciations for “R.” Practise makes perfect, so don’t be discouraged.
- Patience with speed: The French love to talk quickly. Don’t be intimidated—listening to local music (try Indila for clear lyrics) or radio can help improve your ear.
French and Yoruba: Two Cultures of Respect
Interestingly, there are parallels between French and Yoruba cultures—both use formal and informal pronouns to show respect. In Yoruba, “ẹ” is reserved for elders; in French, “vous” serves a similar role. The difference is, French people often switch to a first-name basis after building rapport, dropping the formality. In contrast, Yoruba etiquette remains formal, no matter how close you become.
Navigating this cultural nuance can be tricky for West Africans used to age-based hierarchy, but it is also an opportunity to reflect on how “respect” translates across societies.
Food, Fitness, and Finding a Slice of Home
French people are very health-conscious—easily spotted jogging along the Seine or walking briskly across city parks. Meals are a big deal, and if you ever crave a taste of home, Nigerian restaurants exist in Paris. One reliable spot is at 35 Bd de Strasbourg, 75010 Paris, where the aroma and flavours make you feel right back in Lagos.
For those who wish to cook, Château Rouge is an Afrocentric market that mirrors the bustle and vibrance of Alaba International Market. Here, Black women—students, mothers, businesswomen—carve out supportive communities. Specialty shops like Iya Tobi (101, rue de Clignancourt, 75018 Paris) supply everything from locust beans to pap.
If you’re coming during winter, don’t skip on vitamins and supplements. CityPharma (26 rue du Four, 75006 Paris) is known for variety and affordable prices.
Of course, if you have a sweet tooth, you’ll find a boulangerie or pâtisserie at every corner—Paris caters to the craving. For those new to French bread, microwaving your baguette briefly and adding honey can transform it into a delicacy. Don’t miss iconic treats like pain au chocolat, and of course, sample the local wines (responsibly, in accordance with local regulations).
The Heart of Paris: Architecture, Wellness, and Little Surprises
Parisian architecture is world-renowned, with creamy-yellow façades blending into leafy boulevards—proof that urban design can support wellbeing and cultural identity. Billboards remind people to eat more vegetables, while public spaces encourage movement—notes on train station stairs celebrate your climb, a whimsical touch that makes daily routines that bit lighter.
Some things take getting used to: the French greeting with cheek kisses—called “bisous”—contrasts sharply with the Nigerian “how far” or the Yoruba culture of kneeling or prostrating to elders. Public displays of affection are also common, and can be both touching and jarring for newcomers from cultures where intimacy is often private.
One light-hearted myth I had growing up was that white people don’t fart—clearly false! Experiencing such human moments in crowded trains reminds us that, no matter where we come from, the basics of life are universal. Still, Paris taught me to always carry a nose mask during winter months—just in case.
Bureaucracy and Barriers: The Not-So-Glamorous Side
Every country has its headaches, and for many immigrants, France’s love affair with paperwork stands out. Whether securing health insurance or finding affordable accommodation—especially in Paris—expect queues, forms, and official stamps. Housing shortages and lengthy administrative waits are well-documented (“Housing Crisis in Paris: A Growing Concern”, Le Monde, 2023).
Despite advanced technology, old-fashioned letterboxes and slow-moving bureaucracy can discourage even the most optimistic newcomer. According to local experts, delays aren’t always a “no,” but the effect is the same: dreams can be put indefinitely on hold.
Accommodation is expensive and securing a place can take months. If you have allergies, be aware: Parisians love their dogs, and they’re everywhere. For those like me who recently developed a dog allergy, antihistamines became as important as my passport.
Essential Sights and Insider Shopping Tips
No visit to Paris is complete without these must-see landmarks:
- The Eiffel Tower
- The River Seine
- The Palace of Versailles
- Trocadéro
- Arc de Triomphe
- The Louvre
- Notre-Dame Cathedral
- The Latin Quarter
- Panthéon
- The Catacombs of Paris
- Montmartre
- Sacré-Cœur
- Le Consulat
- Place du Tertre
- Moulin Rouge
- Paris Saint-Germain Stadium (for football lovers)
- Charming cafés, souvenir shops, and boutiques
If you want honest deals on souvenirs, shop around Château Rouge. It’s where quality and affordability meet, and you’ll often run into members of the local African diaspora.
Getting Around Paris: Navigo Cards and Local Transport Tips
Paris is famed for its efficient public transport. Whether you’re taking the metro, bus, tram, or RER, the Navigo card is your best friend. To get one, visit any ticket counter and explain your needs—they’ll guide you towards the right card (Navigo Easy for pay-as-you-go or weekly/monthly passes for regular users). According to the RATP, Navigo smartcards are gradually replacing paper tickets, cutting waste and making commuting smoother.
How to use your Navigo card:
- Hold the card—don’t keep it in your wallet.
- Find the purple circle or screen marked “Passez votre carte ici.”
- Place the card flat against the reader; wait for the beep/green light.
- If unsuccessful, try again or ask station staff for help.
For Metro/RER, tap at entry (and sometimes exit). On buses/trams, tap only when entering. Remember: not validating your trip can result in fines.
Final Thoughts: Why Paris Should Matter to Nigerians and West Africans
Reflecting on my Parisian experience, I realise it was less about teaching English than learning to walk through power’s legacy with my own light. Paris is full of contradictions, yet it’s a city that teaches you to love, live out loud, and belong—even if, like me, you sometimes miss a smoky “rodo” or the sound of Lagos traffic.
Whether you’re planning a study abroad adventure, a job relocation, or just an unforgettable holiday, understanding France from a Nigerian or African perspective gives you a richer journey. As the global African community grows, writing our stories into world capitals like Paris becomes both an act of visibility and resistance—one that future generations will thank us for.
I hope these insights bring France closer to you. If you’re considering a move, a visit, or just want to taste Paris through another African’s eyes—know that you’re not alone in your hopes, fears, and dreams. I’ll be sharing more about life as a Language Assistant in France in my next episode—stay tuned! Until then, à bientôt!
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