Paris Through Nigerian Eyes: Lessons, Contradictions, and Joys in the City of Lights
For many Africans, France has always held a magnetic appeal, with Paris seen as a symbol of beauty, culture, and history. As a Nigerian who grew up intrigued by tales of Joan of Arc in children’s books and later captivated by the revolutionary fervour in French history, stepping onto French soil for the first time was more than a mere journey—it was the realisation of a lifelong curiosity and a chance to see Europe through an African lens.
My relationship with France began young, sparked by discovering that Joan of Arc—a “wild” character I admired as a child—was not just a fictional hero, but a real figure woven into world history. That early fascination led me, as an adult, to delve deeper into stories of the French Revolution, the rich tapestry of French art, and (yes, even) the political drama that plays out on the streets of Paris.
Hip-deep in their revolutionary legacy, the French have a reputation for street protests and an unwavering demand for rights—something that resonates strongly in Nigeria, where activism and social movements are also embedded in our DNA. I found myself admiring the French spirit; they push back against any perceived injustice. According to Paris-based analyst Étienne Kangni, “France protests not just the outcomes, but the very processes of power.”
On the issue of race—a topic of keen interest for Africans abroad—I found France a somewhat surprising paradox. While no society is without fault, according to my eight months living there and interviews with several African residents, overt racism was rare, mainly limited to unpleasant encounters with older individuals. “French people are more critical of your fashion sense than your skin colour,” jokes travel content creator Damilola Uche, echoing my experience. They prize good style, quality cheese, and a proper holiday above all else.
The Contradictions of French Progress
For all its liberatory energy, France is not without contradiction. Overregulation, endless paperwork, and neocolonial influences—especially in parts of Francophone Africa—reveal the complexities beneath the surface. As one Lagos-based journalist remarked, “Paris is stunning, but how many Africans moved here fleeing systems partly shaped by French interests?” This is not unique to France, but it is deeply felt by its African communities.
Yet the culture pulses with diversity: Parisian streets now echo with Afrobeat, Algerian rai, and Congolese rumba. Black and African-descended communities are not just surviving; they are inscribing their stories into modern France. As a Nigerian woman in these spaces, I am reminded that Paris is a mosaic—and we are part of its living, breathing design.
The Language Barrier: More Than Just Words
Learning French as an adult showed me that language, more than vocabulary, is about adopting another worldview. Mastering “vous” and “tu” became a lesson beyond grammar—a dance of respect, familiarity, and sometimes, exclusion. While I aced my IELTS exams, it was French that flowed most naturally for me—almost as if I had a Francophone past life! Learning it through Duolingo made daily life and work in Paris infinitely easier.
I’ve enjoyed teaching since age 18, so securing a role as an English language assistant in France was as thrilling as tasting raclette cheese for the first time (a must-try delicacy!). My arrival at Orly Airport marked a new chapter—Paris was colder than I’d imagined, and that famous Parisian pace had me scurrying indoors quickly, only to find myself soon matching locals stride for stride.
Cultural Differences: Everyday Lessons
Smoking in France is commonplace; the country has its quirks just like Nigeria’s own nollywood drama. Parisian etiquette, however, is universal: always remember your “please” and “thank you.” Essentials for any visitor include learning basic French greetings and phrases—“s’il vous plaît,” “bonjour,” “merci,” among others. It’s not just courtesy; it’s survival.
Many French are hesitant to speak English, even when they can. Instead of asking, “Do you speak English?” (which puts people on the defensive), a gentler approach is “Je peux parler en anglais s’il vous plaît?” This shift immediately improved my interactions and made blending in easier. Over time, practising French gave me confidence, but remember, French people appreciate the effort above perfection—just attempt to speak and you will surely be encouraged.
To Nigerians and West Africans learning French, it’s helpful to note how the rolling “R” in French can be tricky—almost like how some Yoruba speakers pronounce “rice” as “wise.” Likewise, the way French and Yoruba cultures use formalities (‘vous’ versus ‘tu’; ‘ẹ’ versus ‘o’) is evidence that respect is demonstrated through language in both societies, though dropped sooner in France as relationships deepen.
But French relationships with formality and familiarity can surprise. Whereas Yoruba tradition maintains respect in all circumstances regardless of closeness, French culture expects you to switch to using first names and “tu” after a level of rapport is developed. “In France, formality dissolves quickly—intimacy is encouraged,” notes a Paris-based intercultural trainer.
Eating, Shopping & Living Parisian Life
France takes food seriously. From lunch to dinner, meals are occasions. For West Africans longing for home flavours, Paris won’t disappoint. Nigerian restaurant recommendations include a spot at 35 Bd de Strasbourg, 75010 Paris—a favourite among locals for its authenticity. African culinary needs are met at Château Rouge, a vibrant, pulsating market full of “home,” and specifically for Nigerian essentials, check out Iya Tobi at 101, rue de Clignancourt, 75018 Paris. Need vitamins and skincare on a bargain? CityPharma at 26 rue du Four in the 6th arrondissement is reputed (by locals and expats alike) for its unbeatable prices.
Sweet treats abound—from baguettes (try microwaving for a few seconds for extra softness!) to pain au chocolat, and don’t forget a splash of honey. Paris’ bakeries are everywhere and famous for a reason, and the wines, naturally, are a national treasure.
Parisian Kindness, Architecture & Wellness
Despite its reputation, I found Parisians quite helpful—always quick to say “pardon!” and assist lost tourists. “Parisians are straight but not rude,” says Ifeoma, a Nigerian exchange student. Parisian honesty is a breath of fresh air, especially for those who value clear communication.
The city itself is an architectural symphony—buildings in soothing “butter” colours, blending seamlessly with nature, make wandering through Paris an experience in itself. Health consciousness here is visible: billboards promote vegetables, and train station stairs come adorned with motivational phrases. Active living, balanced diets, and visible affection—hugging, kissing (bisous), and hand-holding—are part of the public scene, a sharp contrast to the more reserved displays of affection back home.
Cultural Shocks: From Bisous to Bureaucracy
Getting greeted with a kiss on both cheeks (bisous) is as French as jollof is Nigerian. It took adjusting coming from a society where a nod or “How far?” is sufficient. Public displays of affection, including hand-holding and kisses between couples (and sometimes even friends), are a daily sight—a manifestation of love that’s open, gentle, and, perhaps, slightly radical for those used to intimacy being private.
Curious cultural differences abound: one may even find train rides occasionally marred by the natural act of “passing gas”—a reminder that cultural assumptions (like “white people don’t fart!”) are often hilariously unfounded.
One less charming aspect is France’s notorious bureaucracy. Paperwork can drag for months, especially when dealing with health insurance or residency documents. According to France’s Ministry of the Interior, processing times can vary due to high demand and administrative bottlenecks. On the flip side, housing assistance (CAF) often comes through more swiftly.
Living in Paris is generally affordable, except for accommodation, which is a major headache, much like housing challenges in Lagos, Accra, and other booming cities.
For dog lovers and allergy sufferers alike, be prepared—Parisians adore their pets and take them everywhere. Antihistamines may become your new best friend, especially during walks in the city’s beautiful parks.
Must-See Spots in Paris For Every Visitor
No trip is complete without a visit to classic attractions such as:
- The Eiffel Tower
- The River Seine
- The Palace of Versailles
- Trocadéro
- Arc de Triomphe
- The Louvre Museum
- Notre-Dame Cathedral
- The Latin Quarter
- Panthéon
- The Catacombs of Paris
- Montmartre/Sacré-Cœur/Le Consulat/Place du Tertre
- Moulin Rouge
- Paris Saint-Germain Stadium (for football fans)
- Countless cafés and shops for souvenirs
Savvy shopping tip: Stick to Château Rouge and nearby areas for bargains and authentic wares—fellow Africans often recommend these spots.
Navigating Transportation Like a Local
Paris boasts one of the most robust transportation systems globally. Whether travelling by metro, tram, bus, or the affordable Ryanair for cross-border adventures, the Navigo card is essential for smooth access. Paper tickets are fading out—seek out the Navigo Easy, Daily, Weekly, or Monthly card at train stations, and always tap in or risk a fine.
How to use your Navigo card:
- Hold your card (not inside your wallet or phone case).
- Look for the purple validation circle at gates or on board buses/trams (“Passez votre carte ici”).
- Place the card flat, wait for the green light and beep.
- Tap again at RER exits but only once when entering buses or trams.
- If a problem arises, check if your card is loaded or expired.
Conclusion: Bridging Two Worlds
For anyone preparing to visit, study, or settle in France, understanding these nuances—practical and emotional—can ease culture shock and help you feel at home much sooner. According to Chidinma, a Ghanaian postgraduate, “Remember: Paris is what you make of it. Find your community, share your story, and taste as much as you can—literally and figuratively!”
I hope this guide gives you a sense of what to expect and how to thrive in Paris, whether you’re a future tourist, a student, or building a new life far from home. Experiencing love, laughter, and the contradictions of France as an African woman has been nothing short of transformational. Next, I’ll share more on working as an English Language Assistant in France—expect honest stories and practical survival tips!
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