Recently, Nollywood actress Ivie Okujaye sparked conversation online with a heartwarming video that highlights a rarely seen side of Nigerian family life. In the clip, Ivie expresses deep appreciation for her mother-in-law, capturing a powerful moment of familial support that resonated with many viewers across Nigeria, Ghana, and the wider African diaspora.
In the now-viral video, Ivie is seen alongside her mother-in-law, genuinely thanking her for the consistent encouragement and stability she brings, especially during challenging times in her marriage. The actress shares candidly how her husband’s mother steps in as a positive force whenever tension arises between the couple, reminding viewers of the importance of intergenerational bonds and mutual respect within Nigerian families.
She recounts situations where her mother-in-law would discreetly place a call to her son—Ivies husband—in an effort to diffuse conflicts and restore harmony in the household. Many families across West Africa can relate to the guiding presence of elders in family matters, and Ivie’s story has opened up discussions on the unique, often unsung, roles that mothers-in-law play across the continent.
“Every time my husband and I have an argument, I always win. Do you know why? As soon as my mother-in-law senses any tension, she calls him and says, ‘My son, your wife’s happiness is the home’s happiness. Please, please, please,’” Ivie said.
From her wedding day to the present, Ivie says her mother-in-law has remained a rock of support, unconditionally standing by her and treating her like a daughter. This kind of relationship isn’t always highlighted in popular stories about in-laws in Nigerian culture, where conflicts are more commonly portrayed. Ivie’s openness has brought a refreshing narrative to the fore, shining a light on positive, nurturing family experiences within Nollywood and beyond.
“When I got married, I couldn’t cook. She said, ‘Don’t worry.’ Every week, she brings afang soup and efo riro. Whatever I need, this woman is there. She tells me, ‘All this exercise you’re doing, you look fine. Look at your belly, look at your legs. Dress up, let my son remember he married a fine woman.’”
As the video concludes, Ivie refers to her husband’s mum as “the best mother-in-law ever,” a title that has sparked admiration and sparked debate among viewers about what makes a truly great mother-in-law in African society.
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Posting the video to her social media page, Ivie Okujaye accompanied it with a heartfelt caption, sparking both praise and lively discussions among her followers and Nollywood fans across Africa and the global diaspora.
“When your MIL is your no.1 cheerleader!”
Meanwhile, in a different milestone, Ivie recently celebrated her 10th wedding anniversary, marking a decade of marriage and 21 years of friendship with her spouse. She shared touching photos and reflections, inspiring many who aspire to lasting love and healthy relationships. Her public celebration of her union and her gratitude for her extended family further reinforce themes of love, endurance, and togetherness that are cherished values in many African communities.
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Reactions trail Ivie Okujaye’s video with mum-in-law
Nigerians and Africans at large have not held back in sharing their thoughts about Ivie’s video. Many commended her for speaking so highly of her mother-in-law on such a public platform, while others drew comparisons to their own experiences, both good and bad.
Mercy Ann reacted:
“Why does she look like Genevieve Nnaji nd speaks like her or is it my eyes?”
Joy Sunnie said:
“People wey get b@d mother in-law go think say na Ai.”
Haleematu Sadeeyah said:
“Many house wife can’t relate to this cos Na bad mother in-law full outside God bless all the loving, caring, forgiving, prayerful,mother in-laws out there. Some mother in-law eeh just a single mistake she don tell his son how evil you are something they can easily let go and correct you just they way dey could have corrected their daughter.”
Unyime Cyril Elizabeth reacted:
“Feels so good that I can relate to this. This man d even vex say him mama love me pass am or make she no come spoil me pass him oo… so sweet. First time she got me clothes and bra tops I come confuse like for who? She said she got them for me, I should wear them and be set for her son.”
Timon Duniya Timothy said:
“mother-in-law can strengthen a marriage. When family uplifts rather than criticizes, it creates harmony and happiness in the home.”
Gold Bella reacted:
“This type of mother in law is what every woman prays for.. meanwhile she looks like Genevieve Nnaji Abi my eye Dey pain me.”
Beyond personal testimonials, relationship experts based in Lagos have pointed out that supportive in-law relationships can play a substantial role in boosting marital stability and overall family wellbeing. Dr. Olufunmilayo, a Lagos-based family therapist, told NowahalaZone that “open communication and mutual respect between in-laws and their children’s spouses can lead to healthier, more resilient marriages.”
According to a 2023 survey by Abuja-based marital counsellor First Steps Foundation, more than 60% of young couples in urban Nigeria cite family influence as a critical factor in their marital satisfaction, with positive in-law relationships linked to greater emotional support and effective conflict resolution. Yet, the report also highlighted ongoing challenges, including generational differences and the stigma around airing family issues publicly.
Ivie’s story has not only brought out personal testimonies but also sparked broader conversations about the growing need for greater empathy, patience, and adaptability within modern African families—values that help bridge the gap between generations and ensure family resilience, even as societal norms evolve.
What Ivie Okujaye said about her style
In previous reports, Ivie Okujaye, well known for her rise to fame in 2009, has spoken openly about her unique personality and authentic approach, both on and off the screen.
During a brief interview, Ivie discussed her sense of style, revealing what motivates her fashion choices. She also shared interesting behind-the-scenes insights about memorable characters she has portrayed in Nollywood. Fans especially love her down-to-earth nature and spontaneous style, including her trademark love for sneakers—which she proudly wore on her wedding day.
Her willingness to embrace her individuality has inspired many young Nigerians to be themselves unapologetically, on social media and in real life. This authenticity has made her a role model for a growing community of African youths seeking representation and relatability in entertainment figures.
As conversations about family, fashion, and female empowerment continue to ripple through social media, Ivie Okujaye’s story serves as a reminder that celebrity lives are complex, shaped by both public image and private realities. Through her candid revelations and engaging online presence, Ivie continues to shape positive conversations around marriage, motherhood, and modern African identity.
Looking at the broader implications, stories like Ivie’s not only offer entertainment but also help to normalize positive relationships between spouses and in-laws, challenging stereotypes that often dominate pop culture. As Nigerian society evolves, such narratives can promote dialogue, foster understanding between generations, and encourage more families to embrace openness and mutual respect.
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