Nigerian music sensation Davido recently gave rare insight into his personal values, reflecting on what he considers important beyond the glitz of fame and vast fortune. As one of Africa’s most recognizable Afrobeats stars, Davido is constantly surrounded by the trappings of celebrity. Yet, he revealed that his deepest yearnings have little to do with material wealth.
In a candid conversation, the award-winning singer discussed the one thing he wishes people would ask him about more often. Far from requests for collaborations, endorsements, or loans, Davido said what truly matters is genuine care—expressed through simple acts like asking about his wellbeing.
The singer emphasized in a recent interview that small, sincere gestures—like someone taking a few minutes to check in on how he’s doing—hold much more meaning for him than any monetary gift. For Davido, having a real conversation where he can share his thoughts, even for just five or ten minutes, can have a profound impact, especially during demanding or stressful periods.
Davido Opens Up About Wanting Genuine Care
Davido made it clear he does not need financial support from his friends, saying that asking him how he is really doing allows him to open up honestly. “I obviously don’t want people’s money,” he explained, noting that a simple question about his emotional state means far more than any lavish present could.
According to the singer, it’s these brief, genuine interactions—a few minutes set aside for heartfelt conversation—that can provide the greatest relief, especially when life feels overwhelming. With the pressures of touring, recording, and constantly being in the spotlight, moments of real concern from those around him have become increasingly valuable.
During the interview, the host asked Davido:
“What is something you wished you got asked more?”
Davido responded: “How’re you? Because you’ll just be stressed out. Just the little things. People just asking you how are you and then having five to ten minutes talks could do a lot. I obviously don’t want your money. Cause I’m up, you know. It’s just the little things that count.”
Nigerians React with Empathy—and Some Skepticism
Davido’s heartfelt admission struck a chord online, sparking a wave of reflection and mixed responses from Nigerians and the wider African audience. Many fans sympathised, noting the challenges of finding true friendship and support in the midst of fame and financial abundance.
One commenter remarked: “The truth is if you want real love and true friends, stay lowkey. Money attracts many things but rarely the people who love you for you.” The sentiment captures a familiar struggle among successful people in Nigeria and beyond: as fortunes grow, so too does the circle of acquaintances with mixed intentions.
Another social media user offered a personal perspective: “Yh man. I can relate… That’s one of the things we rich men suffer… Everybody is always after what they can get from us, they never care about how we are doing. To them, because we are rich, we won’t have problems.”
For some, the conversation was also about distinguishing between public personas and the individuals beneath the celebrity. One commenter shared: “I don’t like Davido but I like David Adeleke.” This highlights the difficult balance between fame and authenticity that many public figures face, especially in the age of social media and 24/7 press coverage.
Others were reminded of the broader importance of checking in on those around us, regardless of status, noting: “Little things matter honestly, you don’t know what your friends or family is going through lowkey.”
Watch video below …
“I wish more people would ask me, ‘How are you’? I obviously don’t want your money but it’s the little things that counts for me” – Davido says pic.twitter.com/m5YUxuLso1
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35)
"I wish more people would ask me, 'How are you’? I obviously don’t want your money but it’s the little things that counts for me” – Davido says pic.twitter.com/m5YUxuLso1
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) September 16, 2025
Beyond the Headlines: Wellbeing in the Spotlight
Davido’s perspective opens up a broader dialogue about mental health and emotional wellbeing, not just for celebrities but for everyone. In Nigeria, Ghana, and across Africa, openly discussing emotional needs or seeking mental health support is still met with stigma in many communities. Davido’s openness could spark a positive shift, encouraging others to check in on each other with compassion, regardless of perceived status.
Across the globe, the mental health of public figures has received new attention, with many celebrities—local and international—voicing their own struggles in the face of intense pressure. In Africa, where family, community, and social networks play a crucial role, even stars like Davido are still vulnerable to loneliness or stress.
Experts say normalising conversations about feelings, stress, and mental health can foster stronger communities. As one Lagos-based therapist noted: “Simple, regular check-ins go a very long way. If African stars can model openness, it can help younger generations, too.”
Why These Conversations Matter in Nigeria & Beyond
The relevance of Davido’s comments extends far beyond the entertainment scene. In workplaces, schools, and communities across West Africa, people of all backgrounds struggle with expectations to “be strong” or “just get on with it.” But as more high-profile personalities like Davido share their truth, it creates a safer space for others to do the same.
While the glitter of Afrobeats and Nigerian celebrity life can distract from personal needs, these stories remind us that everyone—rich or poor, famous or not—needs genuine connection. It also underscores the value of friends and family who take time to ask, listen, and support each other during difficult times.
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